How to Wash Your Underwear: Why Ego Isn't the Problem — Neglect Is Paperback – March 14, 2026

You don't have a confidence problem. You have an ego problem… just not the one you think.You've been told to stay humble. So you shrink yourself.You hesitate in meetings. Overthink simple decisions. Replay conversations long after they're over.From the outside, you look capable. Inside… you're holding back.The problem isn't your ability. It's that your ego has been neglected.In How to Wash Your Underwear, Wilhelm Mwengi shows you how to:Stop shrinking — speak up at work without sounding like you're performing confidenceTrust the instinct you keep overriding — and finally stop second-guessing every decisionWear your boundaries — hold your line with people without the guilt hangoverClean up the inner narrative — the one that's been running dirty in the background for yearsThe title is intentional. So is everything inside.Ego is like underwear.You need it. It's personal. And if you ignore it long enough… it starts affecting everything around you.You don't need less ego.You need a clean one. Read more